Wednesday, March 24, 2010

SO YOU THINK YOU HAVE IT BAD?

Name: Nick Vujicic

Occupation: Motivational Speaker

Contact: http://www.lifewithoutlimbs.org/contact-life-without-limbs.php

Angle: Nick has no arms or legs but a whole lotta of love

Circle of Change: Worldwide

Trademark: “No Arms, No Legs, No Worries!”

Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ciYk-UwqFKA

Video Transcript:

There were times in my life when I said ‘well, I can’t do this and I can’t do that. And I kept on concentrating on the things I wish I had and all the things that I wish I didn’t have and I sort of forgot what I did have. There’s no point in my life where I said “I wish I had arms and legs, I wish I had arms and legs I wish I had arms and legs” because wishing won’t help. What I’ve seen in life in just a couple of key principles is that the first thing is to be THANKFUL. It’s HARD to be thankful. When I was eight years old I sort of summed up my life and thought I’m never going to get married, I’m not going to have a job, I’m not going to have a life of PURPOSE. What kind of husband can I be if I can’t even hold my wife’s hand? It is a LIE to think you are not good enough.

It is a LIE to think you are not worth anything. I LOVE LIFE! People ask me how I can smile so much and I say, well, it’s a long story, but it’s very simple at the same time. You see, it’s very hard to smile sometimes in life when things happen that you don’t like or understand. You don’t know if you are going to get through. You go through your storms in life and you don’t know how long your storms are going to last.

PATIENCE is beautiful. It is one of the hardest things. But I realize I may not have hands to hold my wife’s hands, but when the time comes I’ll be able to hold her heart. It is SCARY how many girls have eating disorders. It is SCARY how many people are just angry at life because of their situation at home. It’s SCARY to know how many people actually feel like they’re worth nothing. Every single girl, right here, right now, I want you to know that you are beautiful. You are gorgeous just the way you are. And boys, you the man! I have seen a new fresh perspective in life that has helped me overcome challenges, to be thankful, to dream big and TO NEVER GIVE UP.

Monday, March 15, 2010

CONFUCIUS IS ONE WISE DUDE

This dude is the Chinese equivalent of Oprah, Micahel Jackson, Tupac and David Carradine all rolled into one hard-hittin, wisdom spoutin machine.

Here is an article I found on another blog. It's not my work. BUT I believe in it.

Confucius, whose name literally means "Master Kong", lived 551-479 BCE. He was a Chinese thinker and philosopher, whose teachings have deeply influenced not only Asian thought and life. He presented himself as a "transmitter who invented nothing" because thats what he was. ITS REALLY LOGICAL PEOPLE. KINDNESS WORKS! He really pointed out the importance of learning, which is one reason he is seen by Chinese people as "The Greatest Master".

One of the best known sources of Confucius are The Analects, a collection of his teachings, which was compiled many years after his death. A fountain of extremely mindful quotes springs from these ancient descriptions.

Many of them are universal and timeless in their beautiful and simple truth and they are as valid today as on the day they left Confucius’ mouth. Here we take a look at 10 of the most inspiring quotes by Confucius.

Confucius says …

1. "Never impose on others what you would not choose for yourself."

It’s the "Golden Rule" and the essence of real compassion . Not compassion as in looking down on someone and have pity for another, this is no real compassion. Compassion means seeing another person 100% equal to yourself (in value, not in differentials on the surface which ultimately do not matter). In fact it is seeing yourself in every other person. And therefore you cannot harm anyone without also harming yourself.

It doesn’t mean to lose individuality or self-worth, on the contrary – but the other person earns the same gift.

2. "Real knowledge is to know the extent of one’s ignorance."

That’s my personal favorite quote since it expresses something very profound which also is very useful to know: Ignorance is a willful neglect or refusal to acquire knowledge. It is not widen one’s own perspective in order to see a broader truth. As an example it would be to have racist thoughts and not realizing that all men are equal.

The ultimate truth therefore is where there is absolutely no ignorance, meaning where the perspective or consciousness has become one with all that there is. In Buddhism ignorance (Avidyā) is seen as the primary cause of suffering. Liberation is Enlightenment. Another quote by Confucius here is "Ignorance is the night of the mind, but a night without moon and star."

3. "I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand."

Those quotes are just perfect. What he is expressing here is that we have to experience something ourselves in order to really understand it. If we are hearing something it might be interesting. If we are seeing something it might be beautiful. But only if we feel in happening to ourselves we can really know how it is.

Picture something nice as winning an Olympic gold medal or picture something terrifying as the loss of a loved one. Can you know this by hearing it or by seeing it? Or do you have to do it and experience it yourself to really know it?

Along with this realization comes the awareness that you cannot understand someone or his actions from hearing or seeing it from the outside. You have to feel empathic compassion for him to really know what it is like. To know and not to do is really not to know. Only by applying our knowledge we can validate it’s harmony with reality, it’s truth.

4. "Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it."

Amazing. It calls for dropping the inner mask through which we constantly see and evaluate the world, distorted by our wants and belief-systems. Here we have to look at things as they are. Just like a newborn child would look at things. Then we are able to really see again, without instant labeling of what we see and therefore only really seeing our label. If we become able to do this – just for a second without judgment, we can see that everything in nature is as it should be. And in this natural perfection lies beauty.

5. "The Superior Man is aware of Righteousness, the inferior man is aware of advantage."

Another quote is "The object of the superior man is truth." It is the value of integrity: Do we act to our best knowledge of truth or do we bend ourselves and violate our integrity in order to gain an advantage? Do we play fair game or use perfidious tactics?

To be truthful to ourselves is also important to the development of (good) character. And it is the only straight way to liberation.

6. "Wheresoever you go, go with all your heart."

Whatever you do and whatever you commit to, do it fully, give your all – one hundred percent. It is the essence of Carpe Diem – Seizing the day and it’s surely the best way to be satisfied with what we do and get the best results.

7. "Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do."

There is no failure, there are only valuable learning experiences. Or as Thomas Edison about inventing the light bulb said: "I have not failed, I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work." The important thing is not giving up, but learning and then improving by using this feedback to get better and ultimately succeed.

A quote expressing the same principle is "A man who has committed a mistake and doesn’t correct it, is committing another mistake."

8. "He who learns but does not think, is lost. He who thinks but does not learn is in great danger."

Confucius explains the connection of learning and reflection. Reflection of that what we learned by thinking or of the results we get by applying the knowledge. "Study without reflection is a waste of time; reflection without study is dangerous" is a similar quote by Confucius. Learning is only useful if we connect the learning within our own minds, with what we already know and what is useful for us. This reflection of any knowledge also saves us from blindly following any knowledge without checking its truthfulness and validity to us.

I think everybody experienced learning when we really want this knowledge and interweave it with what we already know. If there is a need or problem we want to solve, the consume knowledge much more effective than it happens for students in many universities.

9. "He that would perfect his work must first sharpen his tools."


The tomb of Confucius in Qufu, China. Photo courtesy of Rolf Müller.

This quote calls for planning and preparation. This includes getting and improving the personal skills we need to be successful. If we want to hold speeches we have to become good with communication skills. If we want to win a race we have to train for it. If we want to do a big project we need knowledge in project management. Steven Covey calls it Sharpening the saw, read about it here .

10. "If you look into your own heart, and you find nothing wrong there, what is there to worry about? What is there to fear?"

It shows that our primary work lies within ourselves: to work on ourselves and improve will automatically take care of the outside world if we use our abilities then. "When we see men of a contrary character, we should turn inwards and examine ourselves." The solution to problems is not "out there". It is the Inside-Out approach: success and happiness can only be found by working on ourselves. It also entails the spiritual message to look inside and to discover ourselves fully.

What are you looking for?

I lost my laptop charger a couple of days ago. This is quite a big deal to a college student who relies on a laptop for homework and social interaction, especially during midterms!
I searched in all the places I thought it would be: My backpack, my room and a couple other places on campus where I had used the charger last. I got by the last couple of days by using other people's chargers, but I was in a real pickle. Fortunately, after I had given up my search, the charger came back to me. I found it hidden under a bag of candy in one of the pouches of my backpack, the very same backpack I surmised to not contain the charger. I mistook the bulge of soft chewy peach candies as an innocent child who would never misbehave and hide my precious charger. Its not that I hadn't forgetten to look there. I just made an assumption that it possibly couldn't be there. And assumptions do much more than make asses out of you and me. They are reference points for us to interpret the world. So much of what we think is based on faulty assumptions that we can never be too sure about any complicated opinions. Sometimes, we just need to use the best informational available to make choices and have faith that we have chosen wisely. We must have even greater faith to know when those opinions need to be changed. As for the charger, that essential "thing" that provides energy and allows us to celebrate life, it does not need to be found. It is always right under our nose. It was always in the most logical place, it was always in the backpack. To find your "true" nature, stop trying to find it. You are looking for something you already have. Stop thinking you don't have it simply because you are not filling the potential that is inherent in us all. Adyashanti, Prem Rewat, Will Smith and Einstein understood this and so can you.

Will Smith says: YOU CAN HAVE A GREAT TIME WITH YOUR LIFE!!!! I love living, it is infectious because you can't fake living.

Greatness is not this wonderful esoteric, elusive, god-like feature that only the special among us will ever taste. It is something that truly exist in all of us. It's VERY simple.

THIS IS WHAT I BELIEVE AND I AM WILLING TO DIE FOR IT. THAT IS ALL I NEED TO DO. FROM THERE YOU JUST DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.

I believe we falsely think, it can't be that easy, we WANT it to be more complex because we are LOOKING for complexity. We think it can't be THAT easy.

We didn't grow up with the sense that where we were was where we were going be.
Where we were didn't matter, because we were becoming something greater.

MOST IMPORTANTLY: The fist step before anyone else in the world to believe is YOU have to believe it. There's no reason to have a plan B because it distracts form Plan A. There's a certain dilusional quality that all successful people [need] to have. You have to believe that something different than what has happened for the last fifty million years of history [can happen], you have to believe that something different can happen!

Confucius says: "He who says he can and he who says he can't are both usually right.

Watch Will's video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OLN2k0b3g70&feature=related

Takeaway: History will only repeat itself if you let it. Discover the greatness you already posess!

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Meaningless Meaning

Oh Jesus of Suburbia,

What is God but a protector of the freak?

My tear-stained prophet, handholder of the meek.

For does not he live in the eyes of the weak?

Those chosen spirits who on shine through the bleak?

When shall we climb that highest peak?

How to get hit and turn the other cheek?

Though the wicked twist you when they speak,

Will their come a time when they'll nought reek?

When will their evil refuse to sneak?

Does the devil attack in silence or shriek?

All these answers I don't seek.

I follow your truth, the sacred, oblique.

Sunday, February 28, 2010

3) Green Mountains


Muso Soseki

In the real world
the pure world
no separation exists

Muso Soseki (1275-1351) was an abbot of a Zen monastery, an advisor to shoguns and emperors and a garden designer. He and the first Ashikaga shogun, Takauji, established Zen as the dominate Buddhist sect in Japan and had Zen temples built in all sixty-six provinces. Soseki taught a large number of students, wrote an enormous amount of poetry, and became the most renowned Zen master of his time. He was given the title "National Teacher."


Green Mountains

Green Mountains have turned yellow so many times The troubles and worries of the world of things no longer bother me. One grain of dust in the eye will render the three worlds too small to see. When the mind is still the floor where I sit is endless space. A virtuous man when alone loves the quiet of the mountains. A wise man in nature enjoys the purity of water. One must not be suspicious of the folks who take pleasure in mountains and streams, But rather measure how well he sharpens his spirits by them. The mountain range the stones in the water all are strange and rare The beautiful landscape as we know belongs to those who are like it The upper worlds the lower worlds originally are one thing There is not a bit of dust there is only this still and full perfect enlightenment A runaway son will never come into his own My treasure is the cloud on the peak the moon over the valley Traveling east or west light and free on the one road I don't know whether I'm on the way or at home In the real world the pure world no separation exists why wait for another time and another meeting the teaching on Vulture Peak* is here today who else are you looking for to preserve the Way?


*Vulture Peak was the place where Shakyamuni Buddha gave his dharma talks 2500 years ago.

Citation: http://onetruename.com/muso.htm

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The mystic Osho says that Love is the only religion, the only god, the only mystery that has to be lived and understood. He says that it is not difficult to love because there is nothing to learn and that we only need to unlearn the ways of ‘un-love.’ I hold these words to be true.

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LOVE

Everything that is about to be written can be compressed and expanded from this one concept.